(Talmud, Erachin 15a)
The speaker obviously
commits a grave sin by speaking negatively of his fellow. The listener,
too, is a partner to this evil. But why is the one who is spoken of
affected by their deed? Are his negative traits worsened by the fact
that they are spoken of?
Indeed they are. A person may possess an evil trait or tendency, but
his quintessential goodness, intrinsic to every soul, strives to control
it, conquer it, and ultimately eradicate its negative expressions and
redirect it as a positive force. But when this evil is spoken of, it is
made that much more manifest and real. By speaking negatively of the
person's trait or deed, the evilspeakers are, in effect, defining it as
such; with their words, they grant substance and validity to its
negative potential.
But the same applies in the reverse: speaking favorably of another,
accentuating his or her positive side, will aid him to realize himself
in the manner that you have defined him.
(The Lubavitcher Rebbe)
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