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Kabbalah Korner By Rabbi Eliyahu Yaakov
There is the Childish definition and there is the Adultish
definition. The Childish Definition states that pleasure is what it
feels like when I do it. Whereas the Adultish Definition states that
pleasure is the totality of how it is going to affect me.
We also outlined the manner in which a society of adults that make
their choices about pleasure based on the Childish definition is going
to wind up with a disastrous situation on its hands.
The truth is that making a choice to overcome the Childish side of
oneself in favor of making an Adultish decision is synonymous with the
difference between Animal-like behavior and Human-like behavior.
Animal-like behavior is instinctual and reactive, whereas Human-like behavior is conscious and proactive.
The higher choice to act in a Human-like manner is, in a certain
sense, miraculous. That is, the classic portrayal of a miracle is God
doing something that overrides nature, transcending the way the world
usually operates. Thus, when a person overrides his or her own nature,
they too, in a sense, achieve a personal miracle. Every time a person
feels like lying down on the couch to do nothing, but instead gets up
and does something positive, he is overriding his personal nature.
This is the beginning of what it means to be spiritual.
On the flip side, a human being that neglects his capacity to choose
beyond the whims of his inclinations is essentially acting Animal-like,
despite his status as a human being capable of Human-like behavior.
After all, a person who merely goes with the flow and does whatever he
feels like doing is essentially running on the autopilot of his
instincts as the animal does, whether those instincts are dictated by
personal whim or societal ideals.
It comes out that the first step to being spiritual is to discover
the miracle of humanhood, and what we mean by that here is the ability
to make a Free Will decision thereby rising above the pull of one's
initial inclination.
In this case, perhaps we can say that while many look at the meaning
of Free Will as my having the power to assert my will to do what I want
to do, it seems a better way to look at it is as my having the power to
assert my will to do even what I do not want to do.
The question of whether or not a person is acting in a Childish manner versus an Adultish manner, or expressing Human-like behavior versus Animal-like behavior, essentially comes down to who is running the show—is it the Brain or is it the Heart?
The question of whether or not a person is acting in a Childish manner versus an Adultish manner, or expressing Human-like behavior versus Animal-like behavior, essentially comes down to who is running the show—is it the Brain or is it the Heart?
If the Brain says, "I want to do what's right," and then you follow
it up with the passion of the Heart, that is the ultimate and that is
the ideal! The Brain is running the show, and the Heart is working for
the Brain.
But if the Brain doesn't assert itself and the Heart is running the
show, then we are dealing with a whole lot of passion that is lacking
direction. That is, the Heart walks into the store
and says, "I want that candy bar, and I don't want to pay for it." If
the Heart is running the show and, thus, the Brain is working for the
Heart, the Brain starts scheming up ways how he can get that candy bar
without paying for it.
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